“Hold me close tiny dancer” is what I sang allowed in a starbucks line as I waited for the hostile take over of caffeine to hit my blood stream. Watched cheaters last night and though I am beginning to question the authenticity of any reality show something hit me. Ready here it comes… if you don’t put the time in they will cheat! If you are not there for them, they will find someone else who will.
Men to often we act like neutered dogs once we get in a serious relationship, replacing the fun and excitement of dating with the stay in and watch TV life style.
So often we fool the ladies we court by trying to present them a life style and romance we have no intention of keeping up. It’s a sort of a show them a good time until they’re hooked and then replace it with staying in to watch a movie followed with predictable sex duping.
In turn the relationship becomes predictable and boring and soon both of you are window-shopping for something to bring back the rush IE your co-worker or newly found friend.
Keep it fresh my friends, this dos not mean breaking your bank account or getting your nipple pierced, unless you’re into that shit. No instead I would suggest making one night a week date night. That’s it pretty simple. Go out and take a cooking class together, learn how to snowboard or just try a new restaurant. Do something that gets you both out of the house and is amusing. All to often we race through life not spending time that counts with our teammate. To often we allow work to be the only conversation, and confuse the three minutes before bed and substantial quality time. Its not, and if you forget about her, sooner or later she will forget about you.
We all have schedules that make the very idea of adding one more thing crippling to our sanity, but trust me it’s a lot easier on the esteem then hiring cheaters!!!
The Man Pretty Man knows that cornerstone of any great relationship is keeping date night alive. Oh yeah and keep the sex fresh!
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