I like Enya find her voice soothing and calm, have no idea what she looks like don’t think I ever want too, if she’s ugly or a man it will ruin it all for me.
I like to distract my self with cookies and sometimes by doing the dishes, makes me feel like I am being product with my time.
Wanted to start by thanking global warming, haven’t worn a jacket yet or shovelled my driveway and its now December. Lets keep those SUV’s on the roads, idle our cars a little longer and burn a few more tons of coal, hopefully it be like this till February.
I’m going to go deep here maybe even try to be profound. Keep both eyes on the road kids and hands on the wheels this might be a bumpy road!
Gentleman and Ladies too (since you’re the only ones reading this) its time for another blog about love life and the way that we live it!!!
Time to set the record straight since there are a few confused, the first one you fornicate with after a long relationship is a rebound not love. Oh snap!!! I said it, the ugly truth that some of you are trying not to roll over and see, the pink elephant in the room or better yet the reality with out TV.
A story to paint a picture… just for you!
I love cookies if you were not aware, find them delectable, delicious and another word that starts with D that means good in my belly. However one day I realised cookies were no longer good for me, we were just going through the motions. I opened the bag eat a row or two and then…well then nothing I got board and they got stale.
So I left cookies and went on my own, one day while minding my business I discovered Ice Cream Sandwiches, they where scrumptious and something my tongue was so unused to.
So I had one that lead to three and before you knew it… I loved it baby. I was ready for Ice Cream Sandwiches to come and take over my world. Until one day in the middle of a brain freeze I realised, this affair with Ice Cream Sandwiches was about replacing cookies and not what was best for me.
NO, because what was best for me was taking time away from sweets all together (approximately half the time I spent with cookies) and allowing my pallet to grow. It was about discovering who I really was and what I had learned from cookies. Ice Cream Sandwiches where good to me and made me feel things I hadn’t in awhile. But at the end of the day I was really just trying to fill a hole that stale cookies left behind.
Look we all rebound, and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact going out there and making a few regrets after a long relationship is perfectly healthy. Helps you regain you confidence and get back into the dance of life. I am not saying to not enjoy your new found company (rebound) I’m just saying sometimes we are so pre-occupied with filling a hole we don’t pay attention to what we are filling it with.
The Man Pretty Man knows it only hurts till you knock boots with a few to make you forget. Real love however comes when you are ready to fall in love with your self first and learn the lessons of the past.
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